196 stable ‘pleaser’


2024oct30        Realization came to full light that Harv already IS practicing “real retirement” at Walt Disney World [or now seriously debugging same].  Also that the write-cabin function seems to garner priority.

Theory W task neighborhood — act# description (verb descriptor noun) pre-act#(s)

196 be stable ‘pleaser’ [study] 5 67 75 135 147 175
195 create real retirement 194 196
175 study reasoning self 147 
147 study self/others actions 148 115 191
135 study liver cysts 115  
133 continue PhD study 131 140  
107 study heart aneurysm 115  
52 study retirement operation 99  
55 study Eileen's Assisted-Living 56  
67 study local offerings 77  
75 study Google higher-tech 76  
5 study fidelity 'instant'-statements  
13 study SRF lesson four  
34 study fantasy wishful-thinking 

This display exercise can lead to a better statement of why-way reasoning.  

results of [above] study ‘way’

2024oct30        What would it be like to have people in my life who were self-reliant, creative, fun, and open-minded?  What if they really cared about me and even challenged me to be better?  What would my life look like if I chose my truth and didn’t allow others to make decisions for me?  https://blog.heartmanity.com/why-being-a-people-pleaser-damages-relationships-and-what-to-do-about-it

From above, personal stability requires that Harv be 
(1)  self-reliant, 
(2)  creative, 
(3)  fun, and 
(4)  open-minded, 
(5)  really cared about me, 
(6)  challenged me to be better, and 
(7)  chose my truth and 
(8)  didn’t allow others to make decisions for me.
answers to above personal challenges in support of “real retirement”
(1)  car.life
(2)  Theory W
(3)  Happy Harv
(4)  expand minds
(5)  Ray Bob (Sean Joey Jamie Antonio)
(6)  self [this writ nature in perpetuity]
(7)  forever better publication
(8)  politely reject other choice(s) for me

Theory W principles development

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